Wednesday, I took my son to Highland indoor pool. I expected it to be a normal afternoon of swimming, but instead I found myself overhearing a conversation that stayed with me long after we left.
The conversation was between foster parents who were talking about the foster children who were also at the pool. Thankfully, the kids were not present during the conversation, but I was honestly taken aback by what I was hearing. Having spent many years in the foster care system myself, I have seen firsthand how much toxicity can exist in situations where children are already vulnerable. Hearing these children being described mostly through their behaviors and defense mechanisms was difficult because I know there is usually so much more happening beneath the surface.
It was hard for me not to feel protective of these kids. I know that behaviors often come from somewhere, and behind every child is a story that most people never see. At the same time, I also reminded myself that I was only hearing one small piece of a much larger story.
Thankfully, this week has also had plenty of positive moments. 😊
I recently started a new job, so a lot of my time has been spent learning the ropes and figuring out a new routine. It’s always a strange adjustment period being the new person, but I’m slowly getting there.
On Monday, my son and I went to his swimming lesson, only to discover that open swim matter his short lesson was closed. Instead of giving up, we went to another YMCA nearby and made the best of the situation. . 🏊
We’ve also been continuing rehearsals with Waxy Comedy as we prepare for upcoming performances and I plan to go to the Fringe Festival in August. There is something exciting about watching ideas come together through theater—the unexpected moments are often the best ones. 🎭
Also I’ve been having a hard time posting pics on blogger even copying and pasting from my iPhone seems difficult so if anyone has tips let me know.
